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Essays Tagged: Scene

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BDSM Play Partner Checklist by Sovereign House
Filed in: negotiation, play, scene, checklist

A checklist

Scene Speech by Author Unknown
Filed in: speech, scene

Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.

BDSM Toybox by Author Unknown
Filed in: toys, play, scene

Pevertible toy ideas

Before Scene: Interview by Norische
Filed in: negotiation, play, scene, checklist

A very detailed negotiations interview

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics Of Negotiations by Norische
Filed in: how-to, negotiation, play, scene

Basic Negotiation questions

Submissive Male in Society by Bluedeacon
Filed in: submission, scene

Q: What does it mean to me to be a submissive male in this society? Good question. First thing that *does* come to mind, is, contradiction. This society has not gone through male liberation, and does[...]

Observation and Analysis of a Scene by Sergeant Major
Filed in: scene, observation, analysis

The observation and analysis of a scene is intended as an objective process where certain constants are looked for during the conduct of the scene. It is not intended to be an appraisal or evaluation of skill or technique.

Anal Odyssey by Mistress G and Alan
Filed in: health and safety, anal sex, scene

Why incorporate anal play into D/S scenes? It feels good; the area is sensitive and erotic, interconnected to sexual organs Produces a feeling of vulnerability and of penetration and p[...]

Our Absolute Lifestyle by Master Eso
Filed in: leather, lifestyle, scene

About the corrosion of the public scene

An Esoteric View: Civility and Incivility in The Scene by Master Eso
Filed in: etiquette, scene

This rather lengthy essay is a direct response to "Sorry Manners: Civility and Incivility in the Scene", by Chris M (Black Rose) and Lady Medora (NOPE), and my own experiences with the BDSM community and groups, after countless hours of contemplation, conclusions, and soul searching.

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