Essays Tagged: Newbies
BDSM Tips for Beginners by Lady Green and Jay Wiseman
Filed in: newbies, general knowledge
Tips for beginners
Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants by Norische
Filed in: newbies, lifestyle, dangers
Within this lifestyle there are unfortunately many dangers, there are people out there using the BDSM lifestyle as a way to abuse or use individuals under an umbrella of acceptance.
Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves by Norische
Filed in: newbies, lifestyle, dangers
The BDSM lifestyle harbors many dangers, oddly enough most people think only about the dangers to the submissive or slave and not to those dangers present for the Dominant. Among the thousands of dedicated, hard working, honest and disciplined submissives and slaves there are those few that pose a danger.
Wannabe Infestation by Norische
Filed in: newbies, general knowledge
Awareness of an infestation is the first cut to ridding oneself of their existence. Many will deny the existence of an infestation, and allow the infestation to remain in existence for an extended period of time even though he or she is not pleased with the infestation.
What to Expect at a Munch by Mistress Constance
Filed in: newbies, munches
What should you expect, how should you behave, how should you dress, what might happen, what might not? When you add that to a lifestyle that can seem terribly intimidating on its own, the terror mounts. I thought it might be helpful, particularly for novices, to know what to expect on a rather detailed level.
A Beginners Guide to Munches by Stu
Filed in: newbies, general knowledge, munches
This is an article I wrote the day after I went to my first munch. I've been to two now, and planning on many more. This is an edit, with inspiration taken from follow-ups to the original, and also experience I've had in the past few weeks. Edits appear in square brackets.
A Submissive Bill of Rights by Author Unknown
Filed in: submission, newbies
You have the right to be treated with respect. Not only do you have this right, you have the right to demand it. Being submissive [...]
10 Doms Online by Unknown
Filed in: dominance, humor, newbies, online
1. The 'I Am Dom Hear Me Roar' Dom: All shiny new leather wear, with a belt full of toys (just bought at Jack's Whip-O-Rama). Of *course* he knows what to do! He read SM101...and even watched Ex[...]
Common Sense by Sean R. Powell
Filed in: newbies, general knowledge, d/s
A great common sense guide to D/s safty and happiness.
Learning to Be a Dom by Master Demetrius
Filed in: dominance, newbies
Even though I'd had Dom impulses all my life, I still had to travel the same learning curve that any Dom does. It's one thing to have an impulse, and quite another to learn how to act on it effectively. That learning process is what this article is all about.
