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Essays Tagged: Submission

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7 Subs Online by Unknown
Filed in: submission, humor, online

1. POOR-ME SUB: This "sub" always has something going wrong in her life. Of course, it is never her fault... she is always being played upon and victimized by others. If only she found the *[...]

Irresponsible Masters by Mystik
Filed in: dominance, submission, definitions

Awareness is for the submissive as well...

The New VT Submissive by dark whisper
Filed in: submission, online

So you've come to the realization that you are most likely a submissive, aye? Are you a little, or maybe not so little, afraid? What does the world of BDSM or D/s hold for you? How will you know which steps to take, and which to avoid? How do you choose a Dominant? Who can you talk to, learn from, vent to, and ask advice from?

VT Serves -- is there a purpose? by dark whisper
Filed in: submission, online

When I first found my way into a chatroom based on BDSM, I felt like I'd gone to an alien planet. There were those speaking in third person, or Olde English as if it was the natural order of the day. [...]

Rediscovering and Modernizing The Geisha : New Submissive Perspectives In Contemporary BDSM by Pantheris
Filed in: submission, service, geisha

(Her text as delivered during the 10/08/96 Expression Productions discussion on IRC)

I am a Submissive Woman by laKajira
Filed in: submission, inspirational

I am a submissive woman. I find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear co[...]

Sample Consensual Contract by Author Unknown
Filed in: dominance, submission, contracts

This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed the slave and the master (both terms are intended to be independant of sex).

One Woman's Views on Submission by dark whisper
Filed in: submission

Who am I? I have asked myself that question at least a thousand times, especially since I began to walk the path of submission. This path is not easily trod at times. It challenges one to move [...]

10 Reasons We Need a Submissive as President by Author Unknown
Filed in: submission, humor

10. A submissive is ready to serve 24/79. She is very protective8. She knows how to negotiate7. She is not afraid of being told when she had done something wrong, most of the time she will tell on her[...]

Developing sub/slave Training Programs Part 1: The Assessment Phase by SAADE
Filed in: submission, training

Opening Statement:It is an awesome responsibility when someone asks you for training. Novice Dominants often jump at the chance to prove their prowess without thinking about the time commitment and t[...]

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