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Essays Tagged: Dominance

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Qualities of A Successful Dominant by Polly Peachum
Filed in: dominance

Lovely essay about the different varieties of Dominants that one may encounter

Some Rules - Dominants by Mystre
Filed in: dominance, rules

Short list of what some basic rules could be for Dominants

Limitations and Personal Growth by Rover
Filed in: dominance, submission

We Dominants accept the responsibility for the other 95 % of Our submissive's lives, and make a commitment to their personal growth as well as their lifestyle growth. Just as in their BDSM activities, submissives have limits in their personal lives that need to be discovered, explored, and expanded when appropriate.

One Dom's Point of View... by Michael P.
Filed in: dominance, inspirational

One man's thoughts on who he is.

Choosing A Master/Mistress by TorqueDom
Filed in: relationships, dominance, dating

Pitfalls of overanxious peoples and their search for the One

On My Honor: Understanding the Moral Obligations of a Dominant by Norische
Filed in: dominance, d/s, protocol

In order to understand what a Dominant's moral obligation to his slave, we must first understand the definition of "moral obligation". The legal definition is "a duty which one owes, and which one ought to perform, but which the individual cannot be legally bound to fulfill.

Domination for Nice Guys by Franklin Veaux
Filed in: dominance

How Dominantion can work if you are a "nice guy"

Ten Commandments by Society of Janus
Filed in: dominance, submission, rules

Ten commandments of Dominants and submissives

Every ROSE Has A Thorn: Honor, Respect and Protocol Amongst Dominants by Norische
Filed in: dominance, rules, etiquette, protocol

A personal story about honor and respect

Controlling the Slave by lauraTV
Filed in: dominance, submission, training

Suggestions for controlling a slave, written in the Female Dom/male sub perspective

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