Essays Tagged: How-to
Clips and Clamps by Author Unknown
Filed in: how-to, clamps
Second only to whips/floggers, clamps in their various forms are the most commonly used toys in delivering erotic pain. They can be placed almost anywhere on the body, with the nipples and genitals being the most frequent locations.
Hair bondage by Author Unknown
Filed in: how-to, bondage
Incorporating the hair in your bondage is appealing to many and for many different reasons. It dramatically increases the feeling of being restrained, it's incredibly intimate and personal, it can be painful, humiliating and it often is very effective.
Ice Play by Naia
Filed in: how-to, ice play
Playing with ice
Sensuous Caning by Conrad Hodson
Filed in: how-to, caning
To most submissives, they mean severe punishment; to sensation-seeking S/M bottoms, overload. If we have care and patience, however, canes can be used in a loving and sensuous way.
Seven Steps to Easy Fisting by Author Unknown
Filed in: how-to, fisting
Yes, you can get your whole hand inside your partner's pussy. For women who are into massive penetration, nothing is a bigger turn-on. No experience is necessary for either of you but if your gal pal [...]
A Complete Erotic Massage (for Men or Women) by Society for Human Sexuality
Filed in: how-to, sex, massage
1. Start by setting the space. The room should be warm enough for someone to be comfortable lying down naked in it (at least 78 degrees). Play some soft music, and possibly burn some incense. Turn off[...]
The Clitoris: A how to of sorts by Author Unknown
Filed in: how-to, sex
I don't know if this is the same for every woman, so bear with me. A random sampling of my girlfriends made up this argument in the form of Public Service Announcement; your results may vary with othe[...]
Masturbation by Tamar Love
Filed in: how-to, sex
Masturbation is fun, healthy and safe.
Take Your Breath Away: Basics of Breath Play by Norische
Filed in: how-to, breath play, beginners
Within the vast selection of BDSM activities not one is as dangerous as breath play. To be quite blunt there is NO safe way to participate in breath play. This is the only activity, that I am aware of, that strictly violates the Safe Sane Consensual regiment.
Jac The Ripper: Basics of Knife Play and Cutting by Norische
Filed in: how-to, knife play
Knife play is one form of BDSM play that I consider to be a true art form. Knife play can elicit a vast menagerie of physical and emotional responses in a way that nothing else can. It can be sensation play, sensory play, role play, or pain play.
