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Welcome to The Iron Gate!

The Iron Gate is a BDSM Resource and Knowledge Database for those interested or curious about BDSM, learning about themselves, or seasoned lifestylers who want to learn more. The Gate began as a work of love by luna, and continues to grow and expand. This is a one stop resource for all things BDSM.

What's New?

In Essays

Kids and BDSM by kaya
Lessons Shared by kaya
Fisting (Vaginal that is) by chelgrrl
Fear by kaya
Lessons Learned by kaya

In Fiction

Humiliated by kaya
Proof by kaya
A Strong Man by kaya
The Date by kaya
The Box by kaya

In Poetry

Punishment by akittenone
Close Your eyes Sir by akittenone
Come to me by Jays slave
I Love Him.......He Loves Me Not by Lord Anjin's dorei
Good Morning Master .......This is Your Shoujo Dorei by Lord Anjin's dorei


What's Hot?

In Essays

Orgasm Control by gina
Filed in: orgasm control, denial, training, submissive training

My Master and i practice Orgasm Control which is also known as Release Training. It is NOT the same thing as Orgasm Denial which both my Master and i do not feel is healthy. We have an agreement that i will never go longer than one month without having an orgasm. Usually [...]

Qualities of A Successful Dominant by Polly Peachum
Filed in: dominance

"The Problems Started After I Moved In" When talking to submissive women about their lives and relationships, the most frequent cause of sorrow and difficulty that gets mentioned is the transition from a non-live-in D&S relationship to a full-time live-in situation. Relationships that[...]

What NOT to say to your Dominant... by Author Unknown
Filed in: humor

Pushing limits does not mean making Master so angry the vein above his right eye throbs. "Quit it!" "Ow, damnit!" "I'm hiding that toy when you go to work tomorrow" and cursing a blue streak are not safe words. "Oh my god, where did you get those, they are gorgeous[...]

A Master's Creed by Author Unknown
Filed in: inspirational

For people who wonder about a D/s relationship and often feel it is "degrading" to a woman, this should clear it up. True D/s involves much love, respect, and trust. Here is what one Master wrote and I agreed with it completely. To me it epitomizes everything that should be in every D/s re[...]

Blind Faith by Mistress Steel
Filed in: submission

BLIND: To conceal or to put something forward for the purpose of misleading. Subterfuge. One who acts to the point of insensibility. FAITH: To trust, give allegiance or loyalty to another. Fidelity to one's promises. Or, a firm belief in something for which there is no proof. It can also mean to of[...]

In Fiction

The Position by Barister
Filed in: punishment, bondage, orgasm, F/f, butt pllug, vibrators, strapping

She was extremely uncomfortable. She had been positioned like this for almost an hour now, as she always was before her lover, Ginny, first sexually tormented her and then punished her. She didn't remember when Ginny first began positioning her like this for her punishments, it must have been short[...]

The Spanking by selkie
Filed in: spanking, orgasm, oral sex, female ejactulation

When D. first looked at her consideringly, she wasn’t sure what he had in that complicated head of his …she just knew that it involved something that would most likely hurt.  Grinning, he studied her with an air that left her breathless. She was wearing her favourite bedtime tee-s[...]

Debut Series: Part 1 by selkie
Filed in: fellatio, exhibitionism, group sex, outdoor sex

S. was ready on time as per his instructions. Impatient for his beloved presence, she paced the house, pausing in front of a full length mirror to check her appearance. Critically she assessed what she saw. She was tallish for a woman, around 5'8". Her thick, sherry coloured curls were swept[...]

The Need by Tracy
Filed in: submission, flogging, knife play, protocol, humiliation, oral sex, m/s, pet play

She knelt patiently by the door waiting for him as she did everyday , naked except for her collar and a thong. Her long auburn hair flowed freely down her back. She loved this ritual, it was one of her favorite parts of the day,. unfortunately today was different than most days. She felt an inner tu[...]

A Fantasy of Mine by Greg's little one
Filed in: sex, fantasy, dreams, oral sex, outdoors

i have always been somewhat of an outdoors kind of person. i enjoy nature and the beauty of it. The smells, the mass amount of colors, and the beautiful songs nature plays for us. It has always been a dream of mine, and i'm sure many others to, to own a cabin in the woods away from everything.  [...]

In Poetry

A Slave's Prayer by Greg's little one
Filed in: submission, prayer, rhyme

Please let me forever be open to learn and understand. Please let my service be absolute, To accept [...]

A Night To Remember by luna
Filed in: sex, love, vanilla, erotic, sensual

Dressed in the slinky, black silk nightgown She stands at the bedside looking down on her lover wi[...]

Spark by luna
Filed in: desire, spark, growth

A spark has been ignited in me The flame unquenchable I need someone to feed it Make it burn brig[...]

A Voice by luna
Filed in: submission, control, growth, master, voice

Can you hear me? I am whispering your name. My mind has sung the praises of your love, traveled the [...]

tripping the wires of desire by The Enigmatic Angel
Filed in: intensity, pleasure, imagery, play

it becomes like a drug the intensity of the moment  you crave it so  you need your fix&nb[...]

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Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff -- Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt

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