So not true. If you take anything from my posts today, let it be that everyone is different and has different preferences. I have said that you don’t have to be into pain at all to be in BDSM. Everyone finds their niche. A couple of my friends in the scene are what I would call sensual D/sers. They enjoy teasing and sexual torture (orgasm denial, withdrawl, forced orgasms) and other sexual forms of play rather than pain and sensation. They may dabble in bondage or blindfolds but that is about it.

There is also the other extreme of very heavy players, ones that try for blood and piercing, cutting, branding and their bondage is more extreme (mummification, inverted suspension). It all depends on the people involved. As long as you find who you are within the lifestyle there is nothing wrong with it.

–luna

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