This goes a lot into the your kink isn’t my kink. It’s all about acceptance. There is no one right way to do anything. There may be safety issues that need to be followed, but other than that do as you will, find what pleases you and your partner and stick to that. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. It’s not wrong, just different. Aside from formal clubs where certain things are expected, BDSM relationships, play, and roles can be very fluid.

If someone said to you that the only sexual position was missionary and that any variance is wrong what would you say to them?

–luna

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