BDSM Myth: People who practice BDSM are all promiscuous.
This is like saying that everyone who jogs drinks Gaterade. It’s just not the case. Everyone has their own preferences. There *are* those that are swingers or polyamorous on top of being in a D/s, BDSM relationship. It’s not a requirement though. My partner and I are monogamous and plan on staying that way.
Basically we have a saying in the scene that is Your kink is not my kink. We accept other people’s ideas of what they want to engage in, but it doesn’t have to be the universal decision.
Let’s take 100 people, for example. Using the percentages given in the post about the NCSF, If only 2% an 4% are engaged in Swinging and Polyamorous relationships respectively that’s 6 people. Of those 6 people, let’s say 12 % (the average for SM-Leather-Fetish) are into BDSM. That’s maybe one person (0.76%) that is involved in BDSM and Swinging or Polyrelationships. See how small that is?
–luna
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I'm luna, KnyghtMare's submissive since 2004. I'm a BBW with brown hair and blue eyes. I've been married, separated, almost divorced now; living with my Master.
Master placed his permanent collar on me January 27, 2006. I'm learning and growing into the perfect submissive for him. I'm changing my behaviors, my attitude and my thought processes to become a better person.
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