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Increased Libido Challenge

I asked Master if he was interested in testing a theory that the more sex you have, the more desire you have for it. I can’t remember where I’ve read it, but I have seen it several occasions. Of course this would mean lots and lots of ‘work’ in the line of sex with me. [...]

[ More ] November 20th, 2008 | 1 Comment | Posted in Playtime |

Thursday Question #60: Thanksgiving

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
What are you [...]

[ More ] November 20th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Thursday Question |

Making a Decision

I don’t expect this post to be very long, but I’m trying to figure something out. I don’t want to make this blog about my dieting issues and yet there are a lot of posts on it. I really want to keep the focus on my submission and other life trials. When I think about [...]

[ More ] November 19th, 2008 | 6 Comments | Posted in Notices |

A Diagnosis is Made

I have hypothyroidism. I don’t know a lot about it except that it could be why I’m having such a hard time with my diet. It would also explain the difficulty concentrating lately, the forgetfulness and the fatigue. I do know that my diet efforts will be a lot easier once the meds are on [...]

[ More ] November 17th, 2008 | 8 Comments | Posted in Skinny Thoughts |

Ending again….

I’m so fat. I’m annoyed and frustrated. It’s my own damn fault but I have to get going again and I have to admit I can’t do it alone anymore. Master wants to help me so he’s going to exercise with me. It’s going to be hard because Master hasn’t liked exercising before. I’m also [...]

[ More ] November 16th, 2008 | 16 Comments | Posted in Skinny Thoughts |

Protected: Letter to Master 11-16-08

There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

[ More ] November 16th, 2008 | Enter your password to view comments | Posted in Letters to Master |

Emotional Slave

After the most recent post, I’ve really been thinking about just how emotional I am. Not just sadness but I seem to get pretty attached to my emotional state.
When Master makes me happy I feel high for a long time, almost like I can’t come down fast enough. When I’m down then I’m really down. [...]

[ More ] November 15th, 2008 | 4 Comments | Posted in Submission |

Hard Topic

I spent Wednesday night out to dinner with my dad and my stepmom. It was great to see them and spend time with them.
The hard part was when K insisted on talking about her cancer and the time she has left. She even has dates. She almost bluntly said she will be gone by July [...]

[ More ] November 14th, 2008 | 7 Comments | Posted in Life |

Sugasm #152

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #153? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s [...]

[ More ] November 12th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Notices |

Patience and Study

Favorite Quote: “A slave’s life is mostly composed of patience and study. Yes, study. If not with actual books, then following the example of greater, senior slaves. Or learning every nuance of their owner’s character, so that they can more completely and seamlessly offer themselves at the right time and in the right manner.” Laura [...]

[ More ] November 12th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Submission |

Happy Love Our Lurkers Day!

Yes, once again it is LOL, short for Love our Lurkers Day. A day to celebrate the silent partners in the blog world, those that keep coming back again and again to peek into our world, never leaving their mark. Well, it’s the day to say hello!
I’d like to encourage you, yes YOU, to post [...]

[ More ] November 11th, 2008 | 30 Comments | Posted in Blog Events |

A Shift in the Diet

I finally listened to the specialists in the field (and Master) that I wasn’t eating enough balanced calories to even start to lose weight. For four years I’ve not eaten more than 2000 calories. For most people that is plenty to stay healthy. Because I’m starting at a much higher weight, I should be eating [...]

[ More ] November 11th, 2008 | 7 Comments | Posted in Skinny Thoughts |

Meditation Monday: Keeping Master’s Attention

I got this question over on Sensual Service and while I don’t answer questions there, I thought I’d try to answer it here. If you have tips to help kat out, please feel free to leave them in the comments.
sexslavekat asks, “How do you keep your Master’s attention? How do you keep him from getting [...]

[ More ] November 10th, 2008 | 1 Comment | Posted in Meditation Monday |

Lesson 2: What kind of slave am I?

Training with Miss Abernathy, Lesson 2
Reading lesson to helps me figure out where my current abilities and talents would take me in slavehood. The exercise was a quiz of sorts
Exercise: Imagine you are a live-in slave, serving your ideal dominant. What would your life be like?
You can do a Quiz Farm type test here, [...]

[ More ] November 7th, 2008 | 6 Comments | Posted in Training with Miss Abernathy |

Thursday Question #59: Switching

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you switch? [...]

[ More ] November 6th, 2008 | 2 Comments | Posted in Thursday Question |

Urination Subjugation

About a year ago I became mildly curious with the idea of being peed on by Master. I have read of other submissives and Doms alike engaging in this activity with varied reasons and results. I have been wondering what it would be like, but I don’t have the desire to ask for it right [...]

[ More ] November 5th, 2008 | 3 Comments | Posted in In The Dungeon |

Personal Definition of Slut

This is a really old blog post, from when I was just an online submissive (2003). I found it in my file archives and thought I’d share it with you! I don’t think I still believe completely in my idea of a slut as this definition applies, but hey. I’ve developed and grown. What can [...]

[ More ] November 3rd, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Submission |

Forums Added to Sensual Service

Just a quick post to let everyone know that I have added forums to Sensual Service. So, if you have service questions, or want to get to know others in the submissive service community, come on over and create a profile.
I’m still working on getting profile edits to save, until then, enjoy the forums!
Sensual Service [...]

[ More ] November 1st, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Life |

The New Bath Brush

After all the birthday celebrating, Master and I came home with new toys. The three rattan canes from Sir Areli and her submissives were the first to be experimented with. Master just tapped them a few times on my ass to see my reaction and for me to give him input as to the feeling [...]

[ More ] October 31st, 2008 | 24 Comments | Posted in Playtime |

Newly Discovered Blogs

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
New To Spanking
Beautiful When You Cry
Akittenone’s Weblog
lalana’s Journey
Once More Please, Master
Kink [...]

[ More ] October 31st, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Newly Discovered Blogs |
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